For more than 20 years, Men For Change has been bringing our community together, raising awareness and funds to provide life-saving services for survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. Men For Change offers a space where fathers, sons, brothers and their families can participate in activities throughout the year aimed at ending domestic and sexual violence.

As a Man For Change, I PLEDGE:

To not participate in relationship violence and not to tolerate it in other men.
To take a leadership role in discouraging other men from abusing their partners.
To not remain a silent bystander, as silence condones abuse.
To challenge men who use sexist language and make degrading jokes or comments about women.
To examine my own attitudes and beliefs about violence, power, control, and entitlement.
To talk with boys and young men about healthy and equitable attitudes and relationships.
To be the husband, father, brother, co-worker, teammate, or friend who says:

I will not silently stand by and allow it to continue.

Currently, more than 140 men in our community have taken our pledge, and you can join us today! Your gift provides support for survivors and your commitment helps change attitudes and beliefs that contribute to the cycle of violence. As a member of Men For Change, you will receive exclusive invitations to events and other opportunities supporting Safe Alliance.


Honor the Man For Change in your life.



Thank You to Our Men For Change!

  Rapfael Banner
Stephen Bergstrand
Rhyne Cannon
Eric Frasure
Michael Fresina
Preston W. Griffith
Robert Koch
Nicholas Lee
Spencer Lueders
Shawn Lynch
Joe Marinello
Shawn Matthews
Todd H. Neal​​​​​​
Ross Peake
Dave Pitser
William Reid, Jr.
Rex Rudy
Alvin Simpson
Brian A. Soja
Gary R. Smith
Nick Tosco
Bruce Walker
Jeremy Williams
Jeff Williams
Jared Yerg

Click here to see a list of our 2019 members.
Click here to see a list of our 2018 members.

    Email Sydney Hammond for more information.
For more information, contact:

Caitlin Donley, Chief Advancement Officer Caitlin.Donley@SafeAlliance.org
Tenille Banner, Director of Volunteer Relations Tenille.Banner@SafeAlliance.org
Sydney Hammond, Director of Stewardship Sydney.Hammond@SafeAlliance.org
Carol Shinn, Grant Writer Carol.Shinn@SafeAlliance.org
Jill Abell, Senior Administrative Manager Jill.Abell@SafeAlliance.org
Tambra Soliday, Community Engagement Coordinator      Tambra.Soliday@SafeAlliance.org

In an emergency please dial 911

Call the Greater Charlotte Hope Line 24/7 for info on parenting, domestic violence and sexual assault 980.771.4673.

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